"Let us therefore, as many as are perfect, have
this attitude; and if in anything you have a different
attitude, God will reveal that also to you:"
Philippians 3:15
I wrote the other day about having the endurance to run the race. I have the endurance to run the race for eternal life but I am struggling with the race of this life. We live in this life. We have all those day to day things we have to do. Laundry, cleaning the house, running errands, paying bills and on and on it goes. But when our life abruptly changes, shifting gears can be hard. In our early married life, I was a stay at home wife and then mom. I loved those days although I was bored sometimes especially once the kids were in school all day. So in that time, I decided to finish the degree I had started before marriage and I bravely set out to do that. When I finished, I got a job teaching. That life consumed my time for the next 21 years. My husband said to me the other night, "I'm glad I have you back after sharing you with 24 kids every year.".
I retired from the public school merry go round and then ventured into the Christian school realm. What a difference that was from the public school experience. I loved every minute of it, all year, until that last day when I was called in and told I was no longer wanted. Ouch! I had never heard those words before. I was shocked and hurt beyond words. I walked from the office stunned and in shock. I managed to get myself home despite the tears flowing down my face. That abrupt change I mentioned, here it was, ugly and unanticipated. I knew when I left public school education I was doing what God had asked me to do. I knew without a doubt He led me to the Christian school. Then it was over. I am unemployed, fired for the lack of a kinder word. What do I do now?
Then it occurred to me that it isn't what am I going to do now. It is what is God going to do now? As I work through the hurt and pain of being rejected, I know that God has this in His hand. I know that like Philippians 2:13 says, "It is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work for His good pleasure.". As I have been rereading Priscilla Shirer's book Discerning the Voice of God, she says that "Desiring and doing His will is not your responsibility to discover; it is His responsibility to reveal.". So it is up to God to show me my next steps, if any, right now. In her book, she talks about the stoplight and how those red, yellow, green colors are a way to remember what God is doing in our life. "The red light of conviction is a His way of saying STOP! The yellow light of dis-ease means WAIT! and the green light of ease and peace is His way of saying GO!". I am in at the yellow going to red light. I do not have the ease and peace of the green light but the dis-ease of yellow and the conviction to just stop and listen. Matthew 17:5 says, "this is my beloved son...LISTEN to Him!", it doesn't say serve him or talk to him it says LISTEN! So as I am in this forced abrupt state of uncertainty. I am certain that God is in control. I am certain He has me where he wants me. He wants me to rest. He wants me to wait. He wants me to listen. If I were merrily going along content and happy with the state of things, I would not be reliant upon God as I should be. I think that is one reason why I am here, to stop, wait and then go when He says to do it.
"Every good thing bestowed and every perfect gift
is from above, coming down from the Father of lights,
with whom there is no variation, or shifting shadow."
James 1:17